Simple Ways To Show Him You Love Him–From An Upscale Matchmaker

In order for our relationships to not only survive but also to thrive, it’s important that you find as many ways as you can of showing him you love him. The following three ideas should get you started but try to think of as many as you can:

1. Out of the blue tell him something profound that you love about him. You are the one who is best placed to do this, as you are the one who knows him like no other.

There are things that he’ll know about himself that you know. There are things he’ll know about you that you don’t. There are things neither of you will know about him yet. But there are things you’ll know about him that he won’t have appreciated in himself.

So don’t be shy in coming forward and telling him what’s most loveable about him. Boost his ego, solidify your relationship and help him feel good. Avoid, however, doing this too often as it may not sound genuine.

2. Tell him often what his good points are. Again this should sound genuine and from the heart. Tell him what you see, that you know others see (because you’ve heard it from them) and that he may or may not be aware of.

Do this especially if this is something he does to you, but not in a way that makes it sound like a ‘tit-for-tat’ game. You are one of the closest people to him, so if anyone is going to know his innermost positive points it’s going to be you.

Find excuses for highlighting these to him, and encourage him to focus on those points as often as possible. Again this is a great ego boost and one that will get him thinking positively and warmly about you whether he says this to you or not.

You also don’t have to keep these compliments for when you’re alone together. Highlight them when you’re out with other people as well so they come to appreciate him the way you do.

3. Take him for a surprise meal, to a club or other event. This can either be on a special occasion such as a birthday, or it can be just because you want this to be one of the ways of showing him you love him. Remember that you would want him to do the same for you, so taking him for a surprise meal occasionally should never be an issue for you.

Nicole Westwood is an upscale matchmaker, a professional matchmaker and a matchmaker in Los Angeles.

How To Successfully Talk To Women, From An Upscale Matchmaker

Do you wonder how some guys seem so comfortable when they’re talking to a woman they’ve just met? Would you like to know how to approach attractive women, how to get them interested in you, and, most importantly, how to talk to women? If you want to have a wide array of options in the dating market, you need to pay attention to what the pros say about how it’s done.

First, Are You Making This Mistake?

Do you need some help figuring out how to talk to women? If you do, it’s probably because you’re doing what most guys do. They go into “approach mode”, rather like bird dogs ready to flush out pheasants. They get overly focused, tense up, and “point”. When you see a woman you find attractive, do your mind and body sort of “morph” into a “babe-huntin’ machine”? The problem with machines is that they don’t think comfortably. They’re pre-programmed, can’t act on their own, and tend to lock up at just the wrong time. Then you’re apt to become anxious, with sweaty palms and halting speech. You appear to any woman in the vicinity as a stammering dolt. You have nothing to say, and (rightly) begin to feel she’s likely to reject you.

Have you been this guy? If you have, you may think all the other guys out there goes through this trauma every time he meets a pretty woman. Most guys may go through this, but there are a few guys out there who are simply great at knowing how to talk to women. They speak to attractive women in the same manner they do to every other person they meet. This means they don’t go into a panic and start stammering if a woman says “Hello”.

What is it these guys know that majority of men don’t, and how can you get into their way of thinking?

Go Against the Grain

Face it. Most men don’t know how to talk to women, which means that they don’t get a chance to interact with them. They never get a foot in the door. Most men, upon encountering a woman who piques their interest, introduce themselves, tell her she’s pretty, and then try to wheedle her phone number or a date out of her. Most men make the mistake of showing that they’re highly interested in a woman almost at once, which lowers the man’s social worth and status. He comes across as very needy.

After this stage, these men rush immediately into trying to close the sale, so to speak. They don’t do what they view as wasting their time trying to get the woman interested in them. Women don’t want this. They want a little playful interaction, romance, or mystery. Why do you think so many romance novels? It’s because most real men don’t bother with these things women find so enticing. Men hate this, but it’s a fact that isn’t going to change. If you don’t know how to talk with women, and don’t know how to interact with them and not look pathetic, your luck is not about to change. You must know how to talk to women.

You wonder why this isn’t going to work? Well, it hasn’t worked well in the past, has it? Women are not suddenly, as a species, going to change their way of thinking about men and relationships. You’re going to have to do something differently than you’ve been doing, and there’s no way around that fact.

Nicole Westwood is a professional matchmaker and an upscale matchmaker who works with singles to help them find their long lasting love. Nicole Westwood is a matchmaker in LA, but works with singles all over the country.

 

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