Simple Ways To Show Him You Love Him–From An Upscale Matchmaker

In order for our relationships to not only survive but also to thrive, it’s important that you find as many ways as you can of showing him you love him. The following three ideas should get you started but try to think of as many as you can:

1. Out of the blue tell him something profound that you love about him. You are the one who is best placed to do this, as you are the one who knows him like no other.

There are things that he’ll know about himself that you know. There are things he’ll know about you that you don’t. There are things neither of you will know about him yet. But there are things you’ll know about him that he won’t have appreciated in himself.

So don’t be shy in coming forward and telling him what’s most loveable about him. Boost his ego, solidify your relationship and help him feel good. Avoid, however, doing this too often as it may not sound genuine.

2. Tell him often what his good points are. Again this should sound genuine and from the heart. Tell him what you see, that you know others see (because you’ve heard it from them) and that he may or may not be aware of.

Do this especially if this is something he does to you, but not in a way that makes it sound like a ‘tit-for-tat’ game. You are one of the closest people to him, so if anyone is going to know his innermost positive points it’s going to be you.

Find excuses for highlighting these to him, and encourage him to focus on those points as often as possible. Again this is a great ego boost and one that will get him thinking positively and warmly about you whether he says this to you or not.

You also don’t have to keep these compliments for when you’re alone together. Highlight them when you’re out with other people as well so they come to appreciate him the way you do.

3. Take him for a surprise meal, to a club or other event. This can either be on a special occasion such as a birthday, or it can be just because you want this to be one of the ways of showing him you love him. Remember that you would want him to do the same for you, so taking him for a surprise meal occasionally should never be an issue for you.

Nicole Westwood is an upscale matchmaker, a professional matchmaker and a matchmaker in Los Angeles.

The Top Ten Ways To Get Over A Break-Up From A Professional Matchmaker

Break-ups are not fun and its something we have all been through. Here are the top ten ways to get over a breakup and move on with your life from upscale matchmaker, Nicole Westwood.

Ten Ways To Get Over a Break-up:

1. Take a Trip: Even if it is just a weekend road trip, take a trip somewhere new and beautiful, either alone, or with friends/family.

2. Volunteer: Volunteering for a worthy cause, especially with people who maybe underprivileged or in need will help give you a new outlook on life.

3. Be Creative: Write, paint, compose, blog etc, Do whatever makes your heart sing.

4. Get an excercise regime: walking, yoga, dance, if you get moving you will not only get fit, you will also get those happy endorphins flowing.

5. Spend time with your friends and family.

6. Counseling: You may groan at this one, but if you went through a particularly bad break-up, it might be good for you to have someone to talk to.

7. Go to the Spa: A manicure, pedicure, facial or massage never did ANYONE harm or get a makeover (just don’t go overboard)

8. Get a couple of funny movies from Netflix, laughter is very healing.

9. Start dating again, might be hard, but you might meet the love of your life.

10.Reflect on what went wrong and what you have learned not to do again.

Four Ways NOT to Get Over a Breakup.

1. Don’t take revenge on your ex even though it might be what you want in the short run. Be the bigger person and move on with your life

2. Don’t binge on junk food.

3. Don’t shop to you drop: Retail therapy is fine, in small doses.

4. Don’t start dating until you feel like you are ready to.

Nicole Westwood is a professional matchmaker and a matchmaker in Los Angeles.

 

 

 

You Can Meet Someone When You Let Go Of Your “List”, From An Upscale Matchmaker

People, particularly women go on date after unsuccessful date with a mental list of what they would like in a partner. Of course, it is reasonable have a list with certain basic requirements for a potential partner, but other things that might be on your “list” might be holding you back from meeting the “one.”

Here are some things on your list that might be holding you back, and the changes you might want to make:

1. Age: Many women and men have only a rigid certain age range they will date in, and this is a big mistake. Saying you will only date people from 30-35 will discount anyone outside that age range, whether older or younger. Remember, age is only a number. As a professional matchmaker I always encourage my clients to expand the age range to include potential matches who might be older or younger than their “set” age range.

2. Income: It’s reasonable requirement that your future partner be gainfully employed and educated, many successful women would like to date a man who is at their level, or just above. While,  It is reasonable to not want a partner who is working at the Gap, it is not reasonable to only want to date a man who is extremely wealthy and not accept anything less.

As an upscale matchmaker, most people who come to by default tend to be successful and upwardly mobile and many DO make over $100,000, but it’s not something I take in to account when matching two people together.

3. Type: Of course, everyone has their own “type” that they are attracted to, being attracted to a person first (especially for men) is the first step to finding a perfect match.

It is reasonable to want to date a tall person if you are tall, or a someone of your culture/race or someone of certain body type, but it is a good idea to keep your mind open about hair color, eye color, or how the person dresses.

When you let go of your list and work with a matchmaker, you can open your mind to a whole new set of potential matches that you might have seen before.

How To Impress Him On The First Date–Tips From An Upscale Matchmaker

As a professional matchmaker, I will tell you , first dates are exciting. The mystery of how your date is going to be like is sending butterflies into your stomach. At the same time, you are probably also wondering, ‘how should I present myself on the first date?’ Well the fact that you’re going out with this guy shows that you are attracted to him – so I guess you probably won’t want to mess this up right? You will do just fine by following these tips I’m about to share with you.

Having dated several times before I got engaged, I’ve been to quite a number of ‘first dates’. Needless to say, there were good and bad experiences and along the way, I took note of what kind of behaviour is attractive to a man and what is not. The key is to So let me share them with you.

Attractive Behaviour of Women on A First Date:

1. Participate in the conversation. What a man likes is to be heard. He will feel that what he is saying isn’t boring you and it gives him a HUGE confidence boost. So, respond to his comments and or questions about the topic the both of you are on and if you are not familiar with the topic, ask him about it! It will give him more things to talk about and you won’t have to be afraid of the situation where there are awkward silences.
2. Be enthusiastic but not overly enthusiastic. Being enthusiastic during first dates is always a plus point. For example, if the man suggests catching a movie after the meal, go ahead with it. And since he’s decided the program, you have the choice of movie. However, if you’re really tired after a long day provide him with an alternative and let him know that you’re tired – being honest about what you want and feel is essential for a healthy relationship.
3. Dress up according to the occasion. This is one of the most crucial tip on how you should present yourself on the first date. You see, men are visual beings. The first thing he will take note when you arrive at the date is your physical appearance. It will indicate to him how much you want to have this date with him and if he sense that you aren’t, there is a very high chance that this date may not work out. So, dress according to the occasion and if you aren’t sure what to wear, ask your girlfriends to help you.

Nicole is an upscale matchmaker, and a matchmaker in Los Angeles who runs an upscale matchmaking agency. She can help introduce you upscale singles for lasting love.

 

Tips on How to Approach a Man From An Upscale Matchmaker

Approaching a man, especially a man you don’t know very well is sometimes a nerve wracking ordeal. Here are some tips from a professional matchmaker Nicole Westwood to help you approach him with confidence.

Even before we begin, let me give you one single tip that all of you need to follow. This is no mathematics where a formula can be followed to get the perfect outcome every time. It is rather too complicated and any particular pattern cannot be followed. Bear in mind that to become a successful flirt and also an attractive one, you will need to practice all these tips and also sharpen all your feminine senses. Women who have been divorced or have been through painful break-ups, can also try out these tips to regain their confidence and self-esteem. Always remember that the best way of coming back to life is to remind yourself of who you are. Read more on signs of flirting.

Confidence is the Key
One of the first and most important flirting tips for women is confidence. I believe that deep down inside every woman is a very confident person and a woman should make efforts of coming out of her shy nature. The simplest way to display confidence is to maintain a fantastic posture. Being well at ease with the body is the most effective way to show positivity. One must also note that a good posture makes you feel good and also makes you approachable. If a guy does not notice you then too bad for him, either he is too stupid or too shy. Walk straight, stand tall and be comfortable with yourself and you are sure to catch every guy’s attention. Believe it or not, this is the best way to flirt and you will notice at least a hundred pair of eyes staring at you.

Smile Smile Baby!
Smiling is the best body signal that gives the message that you like him. Don’t worry, guys are intelligent enough to understand that amazingly attractive smile of yours. They don’t need to understand any Morse code or feminine communication code to get the message. The best way to put your message through is to glance at the guy, make an eye contact for a fraction of second and then flash the most gorgeous smile. Ignore him for a few seconds and then look at him again. This will definitely put the message forward that you are expecting him to look at you and you are interested as well. Smiling does not mean that you over do it. A controlled and sensual smile will be good enough. Men cannot resist the flirtatious effect of a naughty and alluring smile. You may also refer to flirting language of women for more information.

Gift of the Gab
The eye contact, confidence and the gorgeous smile is always enough for the guy to know that you like him. He is bound to come up to you and use his favorite pick up line or he would come up to you and simply start a conversation. If he does not, you can always go to him and use pick up lines for girls won’t do harm, however, should be used only if you are confident in using them. The best way to keep up a conversation is to narrate really good incidences that would interest the guy, like some hilarious story from your work place or some other situation to lighten the mood.

Try a Nicole Kidman
The last flirting tip that I would offer is a quick set of flirting tips for girls. Dressing in a very clear and confident manner is bound to work wonders and boys would not be able to restrain themselves from asking you out. Choose the dress colors very carefully. It would be a good idea to take help from your friend. Wear colors and designs that suit your skin tone and your body structure. No one likes a clumsily dressed woman, even if she is pretty. Make sure to match proper accessories. Shoes must be comfortable and must be capable of carrying your body weight with ease. Hairdo is particularly important. Your locks should be neatly arranged so that they give you a neat and smart look. Simple make up is recommended for maximum effect.

Nicole Westwood is an upscale matchmaker based in Los Angeles, You can meet the love of your life through an professional matchmaker in Los Angeles, like the Nicole Westwood Agency.

 

The Top Ten Romantic Songs Of All Time.

Looking for a that song, you and your partner can call ” your song”? As a professional matchmaker here are my recommendations for the top love songs of all time:

1. At Last by Etta James

2. The Way You Look Tonight by Fred Astaire

3. When I Fall in Love by Celine Dion and Clive Griffin.

4. L-O-V-E by Nat King Cole

5. Unforgettable by Natalie Cole ( With Nat King Cole)

6. My Heart Will Go On by Celine Dion

7. Unchained Melody by Righteous Brothers.

8. Your Song by Elton John

9. Truly, Madly Deeply by Savage Garden

10. Because you Loved Me by Celine Dion

Nicole Westwood is a professional matchmaker in Los Angeles.

 

Ten Reasons To Hire a Professional Matchmaker

Here are ten reasons why you might to hire a professional matchmaker like Nicole Westwood:

1. You work a lot and don’t have a lot of time to socialize

2. You don’t have access to the type of women or men you would like to meet.

3. You are searching for the “perfect” woman or man to spend your life with.

4. You usually choose people who are generally “unavailable”

5. You would like to be married.

6. You are shy and its hard for you to approach men or women.

7. You are divorced, and its hard for you to “get back in the saddle” and date on your own.

8. You are looking for the one person to spend your life to with.

9. You are tired of playing around, and others who play around.

10. You have found that for whatever reason, you just need a little help finding that perfect person.

Nicole Westwood is a matchmaker in Los Angeles.

 

Client Spotlight: Nikki

Nikki has a sparkling, charming personality, she is 28 years old and works as a personal assistant. She lives in Santa Monica and loves to go to the beach, cook, travel and hike. She is looking to meet a man who is outgoing, mature and who has a good sense of humor.

Nikki has only been a client of ours for a short time, but she is eager to find the man of her dreams.

Meet Nikki, and other beautiful model quality woman through a professional matchmaker, like Nicole Westwood, who owns a upscale matchmaking agency in Los Angeles.

Client Spotlight: Elizabeth

Elizabeth is a beautiful young woman who is seeking a special man to share her life. She came to our matchmaking agency just a short time ago. Elizabeth is a teacher who lives in Orange County. She describes her herself as fun-loving, sweet, kind and caring. She is 29 years old, 5’7 and 115 lbs.

Through our agency, she would like to find a man who has a desire to get married and start a family.

You can meet Elizabeth and others like her at our upscale matchmaking agency. Nicole Westwood, a professional matchmaker in Los Angeles who will work with you one on one to find you a great match like Elizabeth.

Client Spotlight: Melanie

Melanie is a total jewel!

She is a 34-year-old lady seeking her prince charming! She is beautiful, intelligent classy and a totally delight for any professional matchmaker to work with.

Melanie works as a hairdresser and lives New York City.  She is single and has never been married with no children. She is seeking a marriage, minded man 35-60.  She is willing to travel across country if needed to met the man of her dreams.

To meet Melanie and other beautiful model quality women, please call us a (310) 684-2625, we are a Los Angeles matchmaking agency, but we work with upscale singles all over the country!