Tips from a Professional Matchmaker On How To Impress Her

As a professional matchmaker here are my top tips for impressing the woman you are going out with.


-Practice appropriate chivalrous behavior

Be a gentleman ( gentle + man ) and take care of her needs without prompting. Open doors, offer your coat when she’s cold, etc

-Be strong, yet not abrasive

Women don’t react well to a spineless jellyfish that won’t stand up for himself, but be careful not to cross the fine line between confidence and cockiness.

-Express and ask about feelings

A woman appreciates a man who is willing to talk about his feelings and is sincerely interested in hers.

-If you’re consuming alcohol, keep it social and minimal.

If you have to be “fortified” with alcohol to be with her, she’ll sense you can’t relate to her sober.

-Exhibit confidence, not jealousy

The reality that she’ll stay in contact with friends and acquaintaces she had before she met you shouldn’t threaten you.

-Be accountable for your words and actions

Be a man of your word and let your actions show intentions and character.

-Realize that relationships can’t be bought

Keep things simple. While it’s nice to be spoiled, little things are often much more appreciated and sincere. Buy her a card, not a car,

-Treat her with the same courtesy, respect and enthusiasm in front of your friends, family and colleagues as you do in private.


Nicole Westwood is an upscale matchmaker in Los Angeles, she works with upscale singles to help them find the love of their lives. The Nicole Westwood Agency is an matchmaking agency in Los Angeles, but also works with singles in San Francisco, Las Vegas, New York, Miami, Orange County and all over the USA.



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