What Women REALLY Want!–From An Upscale Matchmaker

It’s a question that has been asked since the dawn of human life. Men for thousands of years have sat around scratching their heads, trying to figure out just what women want. It is important to take into account that all women are different, but fundamentally when it comes to relationships they all want the same thing. I am sure there are women out there who will argue with me, but on a basic level women just want honesty, respect, and a sense that the other person in their life really and truly cares about them. It’s really easy, and sometimes it is complicated, but that is really all there is to it.

Honesty is the best policy when it comes to women. It gives a woman a sense of security when they know where you stand, and how you feel about them. I realized that honesty was very important just recently. I dated a guy for six months, and it seemed as though we were starting to get serious. He didn’t say anything to the contrary, but I found out later that he wasn’t serious, and was still pursuing his ex girlfriend.

If I had known that, I could have saved myself a lot of hurt feelings, and I would have had a lot more respect for the guy I had been dating. The point is, we want to know where you stand with us. Do you want a serious relationship? Do you want to casually date? Do you want to just be friends? It is so much better if you just say it from the start.

I have said to many people how being in a relationship, is just about being yourself with somebody else. That being said, respect is high on the list of priorities when it comes to relationships. Just because a woman is involved with you, does not mean that every part of her life is involved with you. A woman needs to be free to have girl time, pursue her hobbies, and maintain her individuality. You were attracted to her because she was different from anyone you ever met right? Well, let her stay that way by respecting her individuality, and she will do the same for you.

The most important thing a woman wants from a man in a relationship is the sense that he really cares about her. This does not mean that every time she has a bad day, you have to run out and buy her flowers. While that is a really sweet gesture, all she really wants is for you call, or maybe stop by.

We all have busy lives, but if you take the time to show the special lady in your life that you really care about what is going on with her, and what is important to her. If you can show her that you really care about her, that will go a long way to securing a healthy and happy relationship.

What women really want from a man and a relationship, is very simple. As simple as it is, people always find a way to complicate things. Honesty, respect, and genuine concern for the well fare of your girlfriend, are the most important and most sought after qualities women are looking for in men. If you can master these three things, and bring them into a relationship, you will have the basis for a lifelong love affair. Now that you know, act on it and do your best. The results will better than you ever thought possible.

 Nicole Westwood is an upscale matchmaker and professional matchmaker providing executive matchmaking to upscale singles.



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