What Matters…Looks Or Personality?–From An Upscale Matchmaker

What do you think guys like in a girl? Is it the look or the personality? Do men prefer pretty girls to smart girls with a great personality or is it the other way around? Are guys as superficial as we think they are? Or do men want a woman with more substance than just a pretty face? We all have our assumptions about the look versus personality debate, but which of the two really wins in the male mind?

Women all over the world (especially average-looking ones like me) are dying to find out what really matters to a man. Are men really all about looks? In reality, men will consider a woman’s physical appearance first, but when determining whether she is girlfriend or wife material, personality wins every time. Still not convinced? Here are four reasons why:

#1: You won´t be beautiful forever

Let’s face the reality ladies – no one will be beautiful forever. That pretty face will soon fade with age and there´s nothing we can do about it. Men know this fact as well as we do. Therefore, it is a no brainer that personality matters more. Men tend to think long-term. They want a woman to grow old and share great memories with. Not just a pretty face who has nothing in common with her man.

#2: You can´t carry a conversation

Although it may be hard to believe, men do love to talk to their girlfriends or wives. And when a woman doesn´t know how to carry a conversation, the relationship will fail quickly. As a male friend of mine used to say, you can’t stay in the bedroom forever. Intellectual and emotional connections are crucial factors for men when they choose a life partner.

#3: Men don’t trust women who’re overly sexy

In general, it’s better to have more of a good thing. Unfortunately, when it comes to looks, looking too sexy can hinder a woman’s success to get married. When you look at the dating world, the women who’re classy and attractive tend to do better than women who’re a perfect 10 sex goddess. Many playboy centerfolds or sex symbols have a horrible time in the love department. This shows that being too sexy can get in the way of a woman who wants to settle down with a high quality man and raise kids.

#4: Looks could only help you for the first few months

Men will feel extremely infatuated with an amazingly beautiful woman. Especially during the first few months, a man will do anything for that woman to be with her. Unfortunately, scientific studies have shown that infaturation stage normally lasts for a few months to one year. After that, a woman must have great emotional and intellectual connection with a man to move the relationship forward. Overall, looks could only go so far in the dating world. After a while, there has to be something more for the guy, and usually, it’s a woman’s charming personality. What makes a relationship last is the whole package.

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