As a upscale matchmaker, many of my female clients as me how they will know if a man is serious about commitment/marriage.
1. There is no waiting game or guessing about your relationship status:
Contrary to popular belief, men fall fast and hard. A man who has truly fallen for a woman will waste no time in trying to get you “off the market” so no other guy can scoop you up.
2. He is frugal with his money and is saving for the future.
Men equate commitment with getting married and starting a family. This means he has a stable career and he is saving for a home and retirement, not going out and buying that Porsche, those designer jeans, the trendy loft or the state of the art gizmo that costs an arm and a leg.
3. He waits to ask you to move in/get engaged.
He might fall fast and hard, but a man who is interested in marriage will wait a good amount of time to ask you to move in or get a place together. If he brings up marriage, engagement or moving in too early those are major warning signs he is not ready for marriage.