I know a lot of guys like to make a really big impression on a woman that they like, so they are willing to spend a lot of money on the first date because they assume that this will somehow lead them to getting a second and a third date. However, it does not always work out this way, and when you really take a look at what creates that special connection with a woman so that she does want to have more than one date with you, you will realize that you don’t have to spend a lot of money.
It’s only fitting that guys think that they have to spend a lot of money on the first date. It’s kind of the general thing that men are taught to do. You know, ask her out, then plan such an amazing first date that she falls hard for you and that’s the way that it should go. However, as many men come to find out, just spending a lot of money is in no way a guarantee that you will end up with a second or third date with a woman.
You really don’t have to spend a lot of money to make a first date memorable for a woman, and certainly you don’t have to spend a lot of money to try and get a second or third date. For every guy that succeeds by breaking his bank account, there are just as many, if not more who don’t.
Here are a few first date tips for men that should help make a big impression without requiring you to spend a ton of cash:
1) Instead of spending a lot of money, be CREATIVE when planning things out.
Use your imagination a little and plan out a more creative date than dinner at an expensive restaurant and a bouquet of expensive flowers. Even though you might think that the expensive dinner and the flowers might do the trick, you really are a lot more likely to WOW a woman by being a little bit different and trying to think outside the box and take her out on a date that is unlike any other she has been on. That’s how you can become very memorable and stand out and make her want to see what is coming next.
2) Focus more on the conversation and the connection that you make with a woman.
The best way to practically guarantee that you are going to get that second and third date is not with your wallet, but with your conversation and what kind of a connection that she feels with you. You can spend all of the money that you like, but if the connection is not there and if the conversation is boring or it makes her feel like she is out with a friend or a brother like figure, you are probably not going to get another chance to go out with her. So, try and focus MORE on the conversation and the connection that you make with her more than impressing her with how much cash you are willing to spend on her.
3) Make your move without showing a lot of hesitation and at least kiss her by the end of the date.
One of the things that really makes the first date a success, if is there is a real attraction between you and her and to make sure that this is the case, you have to make your move. Don’t think that you are going to lose a chance at another date by making your move. At least go in for the kiss, because the longer that you wait for this, the more likely it is that she is going to think of you in a platonic way.