3 Essential Tips For A Happy Relationship–From An Executive Matchmaker

In a rapidly globalizing world, it is becoming more and more common to see people of different mindsets, attitudes and cultures getting into relationships with each other and even being confident of expressing their individuality. While this is great at many levels, it also brings its own set of problems. In fact, it is virtually impossible to find the right approach for a successful relationship without getting some relationship advice and knowing the skill of dealing with differences.

1. The Importance of Being Communicative

Let’s say you are American and your partner is Japanese. Besides, you like your late night shows on television while he is an early riser. If neither of you is adaptable, it is very likely that you will soon start to experience difficulties in your relationship. To begin with, it is extremely crucial that both of you communicate with each other. tell your partner what you like about them, and what you find somewhat irritating or difficult to adjust to, and do it calmly and tactfully. Expect to hear the same too. Obviously, you could push your grievances under the carpet now, but then they will manifest themselves in an ugly way when you fight. That will only produce bad blood. Instead, if you are communicative and frank, you will be able to build trust and goodwill.

2. Helping Each Other Grow

By being communicative, you will also help each other adapt and grow. It is a crucial skill in today’s world to be able to adapt your behavior and accommodate differences. By helping each other learn this skill, you will really strengthen your bond. However, while there are changes your partner will be willing to make, there will also be things they will not want to change. The same goes for you, so, you will both need to take little steps forward and find a balance where both of you are happy. Sometimes it happens that one person ends up making most of the adjustments over a period of time. That is one of the major causes of a failed relationship.

3. The Challenge of Different Lifestyles

Lifestyle differences pose the biggest challenge, especially those which clash directly, such as when one person likes to sleep early and the other likes to stay up late, or if there is one spare room in the house, which one wants to convert into a yoga and meditation room and the other into a study. Here, you need to be aware that just as you would want to preserve certain elements of your lifestyle, so would your partner. You don’t want to begin compromising the things you love. Instead, show some initiative to include the other person’s preferences into your life. It is a fine balance, and you both will need to do this.

So, if you sleep at different times, try to get some quality time with each other in the evening. If you have different aspirations for your spare room, perhaps it can be converted into a study with light furniture, which can be moved aside when your partner wants to do his yoga and meditation. At the end of the day, you both need to be mature and willing to grow to make your relationship work.



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