How To Build A Long Lasting Relationship With Her–From An Executive Matchmaker

Relationships are not easy, but you can certainly work to improve the one you are in. Men tend to fall behind when it comes to nurturing what they are building with the special woman in their life. Whether you are married or involved in a committed relationship, there are conscious steps you can take to refresh your ideas on how to work together as a couple.

The first step is to acknowledge that you must put time into your relationship every single day. Sit down with your wife or girlfriend and discuss this as soon as possible. Talk about whether you both feel the same about how it is going between the two of you. Once you have determined where you are currently and where you would like to be, set a time every day to do what needs to be done.

This may sound too vague, but remember that each couple is different. You must decide if you want to have a date night each week, or take a full day every month to spend time with only the two of you. If there are children involved, think about how you can arrange for them to be cared for during this time. Make sure it will be fun for them as well so that they will look forward to this special time.

Eating meals together is also an excellent way to build a deeper connection with the woman you love. This is time that can be used to find out more about what she likes, how things are going with her job, and what she would like to do regarding a variety of day to day issues. Use this time to get to know her better than you do already.

Once you begin spending more time together you can begin to think about and discuss your future together. Many couples never take the time to do this, and wonder why their relationship falls apart after a short time. Ask each other questions that reveal how you honestly feel about topics you may not have talked about in great detail. You may be amazed at her answers, but at least you will have a starting point for what you want to work on.

As a husband or boyfriend, you can take the lead in your relationship and show your woman that you care about making this work. This lays the foundation for building a relationship that will last a lifetime.



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